The holidays are a magical time, but when the decorations come down and the normal routines creep back in, many families find themselves feeling down. In fact, 38% of Americans report experiencing sadness or depression after the holidays. For parents, this emotional slump can be even tougher as we juggle our own feelings with helping our kids navigate theirs.
At Lion + Owl, we understand how overwhelming this season can be, so we’re diving into the causes of post-holiday blues and sharing actionable tips to help your family bounce back stronger than ever.
Why Do the Holidays Hit So Hard?
The holidays bring joy and connection but also heightened emotions, packed schedules, and high expectations. When the season ends, both parents and kids can feel a sense of loss. Here’s why:
- Routine Disruptions: Kids thrive on structure, and the holiday break often throws schedules out of sync. Without a predictable routine, kids may feel unsettled or anxious.
- Emotional Highs and Lows: The excitement of gifts, parties, and family gatherings can lead to a “crash” when life returns to normal.
- Seasonal Factors: Winter’s shorter days and reduced sunlight can impact mood, with 14% of Americans reporting symptoms of seasonal affective disorder (SAD).
- Parental Pressure: Nearly 1 in 3 parents admits feeling overwhelmed by the financial strain and emotional labor that often accompanies the holidays.
If this resonates with your family, know that you’re not alone—and there are ways to turn things around.
Turning It Around: Tips to Beat the Blues
The post-holiday season can be a time of growth and connection. Here are some tried-and-true strategies to help both you and your kids transition into the new year with hope and positivity:
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Ease Back Into Routines:
Rebuilding structure doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Start small by re-establishing bedtime routines, setting meal schedules, and creating a daily rhythm. For kids, predictability provides a sense of safety and comfort. -
Create New Things to Look Forward To:
Plan fun, low-pressure activities like family movie nights, crafting projects, or weekend outings. Having something to anticipate can reignite excitement and shift focus away from what’s passed. -
Practice Gratitude as a Family:
Sit down with your kids and reflect on your favorite holiday memories. Write them down or create a gratitude jar to remind everyone of the joy the season brought. -
Get Moving:
Exercise is a powerful mood booster. Even a 15-minute walk or a spontaneous dance party can help release serotonin and improve everyone’s outlook. -
Celebrate the Everyday:
Remind your kids—and yourself—that magic isn’t reserved for the holidays. Baking cookies, reading a new book, or building a blanket fort can be just as special as the grand gestures of the season. -
Open the Lines of Communication:
Encourage your kids to talk about their feelings without fear of judgment. Simply validating their emotions with a phrase like, “It’s okay to feel this way,” can make a big difference. -
Embrace Nature and Light:
Combat the effects of winter by spending time outdoors during daylight hours or using light therapy lamps indoors. Studies show that exposure to natural light improves mood and energy levels.
Building Resilience Together
The post-holiday blues are temporary, but the bonds you create during this time can be lasting. By focusing on small, meaningful actions, you can turn this season into an opportunity to grow closer as a family.
At Lion + Owl, we’re all about creating comfort and connection, whether it’s through our inclusive clothing line or our community of parents striving to make the world a better place for our kids.
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Together, we can keep the joy alive—all year long.
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